8 ways to relieve stress

1. Breathe deeply for 5 minutes.

When feeling overwhelmed, telling yourself to relax is only adding fuel to the fire. Instead, take five and breathe. A daily practice of slow, rhythmic breathing stimulates the vagus nerve-a nerve that extends from your brain stem to your diaphragm. When stimulated by deep breathing-like that used in yoga or tai chi, the vagus nerve decreases your heart rate and pacifies organs i.e. your churning stomach.
Try this breathing exercise: Breathe through your nose. Inhale to a count of 4. Hold your breath for 2 seconds. Exhale to a count of 4.

2. Go to bed a ½ hr earlier.

Feeling cranky? You need a nap. And if you don’t have time for a nap, try going to bed a ½ hour earlier. More sleep means more patience, less stress and increased learning, reaction time and efficiency. Tired people are more likely to be cranky, aggressive and to experience burnout.

3. Hang out with friends. Choose one person to connect with from the past


“Friends are the essence of a long life,” says Kathleen Hall PhD, author of A Life in Balance. “We get endorphins and serotonin just by talking to a friend, but be in her physical presence and your brain produces the feel good hormone ocytocin, which is very good for the body.”
Strong social networks also reduce stress, promote longevity, improve sleep and prevent depression. There is probably at least one person in your life you need to talk to. You know you need to talk to this person because the guilt of NOT talking to them is nibbling at your conscience. I can think of at least 3 people right now: my best friend from childhood, a former college roommate and a work friend who quit months ago that I promised I’d call. So choose one person you haven’t talked to in weeks, months or years and give them a call or write them a letter.


4, Try meditation. You know you wanna. You know you wanna. You know you wanna.

Meditation creates instant calm by lowering blood pressure and decreasing heart rate. Even a minute of meditation will help.
“Your brain only know what you tell it, so as soon as you feel stress, repeat a mantra (You know you wanna. You know you wanna.), or visualize a place where you feel loved and calm,” says Hall.

Tips to getting started:
1. Start slowly. A minute a day. You can do it at your desk at work, in a parked car, on the toilet-wherever you can get some peace and quiet. Try to work your way up to 20 minutes in a day over time. Add on a minute every week-or whatever you feel comfortable with.
2. Find a quiet place without distraction.
3. Take long slow breaths. Match your inhale count to your exhale count. 1, 2, 3, 4 on the inhale. 1, 2, 3, 4 on the exhale. Once you are breathing rhythmically, begin to count your breath on the exhale.
4. Accept the fact that your mind will wander. That’s just what it does. Gradually with practice you will be able to focus longer and longer on your count. I think the first few times I could only count to 3 breaths before my mind proceeded to wander.

5. Banish crap food.

Wait! Don’t leave. Hear me out. I am suggesting that you gradually banish junk food. Slowly decrease your intake of junk food to 5% or less of your diet, and plan your splurges. The sugar and trans fatty acids found in processed foods like cookies and crackers actually reduce circulation and raise blood pressure. The best way to curb desire for crap food is to eat 3 high fiber, low sugar meals a day. On a full stomach, you’re much less likely to grab a candy bar or cruise through McDonalds drive-thru for a snack off the 99 cent menu.

6. Banish Caffeine and Alcohol

Caffeine boosts the production of adrenalin-a stress hormone. “With caffeine, you’re basically putting a stimulant that makes people feel jittery and wired into a body that’s already tending toward feeling jittery and wired,” says Victoria Maizes, MD, executive director of the Program in Integrative Medicine at the University of Arizona. Caffeine also interferes for sleep. So if you must have it, have it prior to noon and with a full meal.

Like caffeine, alcohol also interferes with sleep by upsetting metabolism and blood sugar levels. And sleep (see number 2) is an important, if not the most important way to reduce stress.

7. Walk-but don’t overdo it.

Devote at least 15 minutes to a nice, leisurely stroll and try to walk somewhere quiet and calm, like a park or a lake. Even moderate exercise releases endorphins and regulates blood sugar, but try to take it easy—the purpose is to relax and unwind not beat a personal mile marker.

8. Use Lavender:

Research suggests lavender may improve sleep quality, ease mild depression, soothe jitters and promote relaxation by slowing nervous system activity. A massage with lavender oils may result in better sleep, more stable mood and reduced anxiety. In fact, the ever calm, collected Germans put lavender in tea to treat insomnia, restlessness, and nervous stomach irritations.

Blackwood, Alisa. “Food and Stress.” p.64-69. Body and Soul. Jan2008.

Arnold, Katie. “Quell Stress.” p26-32. Delicious Living. Annual Guide 07. “Quell Stress.”
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